Sunday, March 20, 2011

So tell me...

Here's my story. My husband and I got married when we were just 20 years old and have been very happily married since.  I was a Nanny up until we got married so I've always known how much I love children and how badly I want some of my own but we originally talked about waiting until we were 27 to start a family even though we knew we couldn't wait til that day. Our thoughts were to try to enjoy being just us two for as long as possible. And I know even now that enjoying each other is a great idea however, after being married only a few months we both started to get the baby urge. We tried to be good about it and keep ourselves distracted which worked okay for about 1 1/2 years. However, the urges only intensified more and more with each passing month. Another year and a half brings me here; sitting in front of my computer looking for anyone to exchange sympathy with. Oh yeah, here's one of my biggest problems.... My husband now wants to wait. Not indefinitely but he for sure wants to wait. Now I feel more alone than ever and I am desperately waiting for him to jump back on with me. So tell me... what's your story?

4 comments:

  1. My story, with my first (and only biological) daughter. Me and here father met when I was 18. We talked about getting married and starting a family when I turned 21. We last about 2 1/2 years and split about 7 months before my 21st birthday. Little did I know I was prego. We never got back together, but to this day I still laugh because he put me off until 21 and I got her 10 days after my 21st birthday.

    I understand your frustration now. My hubby and I have been married for 2 years now. I want another child desperately, and he does to, but he will not agree to have faith and start trying. I am 31 years old, now, and have set my cut off for 32 years. Doesn't leave us much time and I am starting to grieve the dream.

    Hang in there. There are lots of stories of husbands just coming home one day with a change of heart. There is no telling what will change his mind.

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